Broken Vows - Diary ya ga Obonolo Chapter 59 - Mzansi Stories

Wednesday, October 14


Broken Vows - Diary ya ga Obonolo Chapter 59


I thought, hai, I have to say something, well; let me speak from the heart.

Nna: “Firstly can I just say a massive thank you to God almighty for such a blessed, beautiful and successful day. Thank you to everyone who has made this day possible. 

If I was to mention everyone I would be here all night but I will come and thank you all individually and personally. But without you helping in various ways we couldn’t have had such an amazing day.

Secondly I would like to thank my bridesmaids. Not only for putting up with me for the last few months when I have been very stressed and most probably annoying, empa le entse mosebetsi o motle, ka matsetseleko le lerato, ke a leboha, go tswa boteng jwa pelo ya me. You have been great, thank you.thank you.

Ke ne ke tshwenyegile for dikgwedi, eseng fela ka ho nagana gore Monyadi o tla ba le cold feet,and run away, but about all the little things like the flowers, and the food not being enough or something not arriving, and not fitting in my dress. But I can now say that it has been the best day of my life, everything had fallen into place brilliantly and I could not have asked for a better day.

I would like to say a special thank you to Batsadi bame, in the absence of my beloved late father, may your soul rest peacefully papa. I shed a tear, composed myself and continued,

To mama, my siblings and members of Dire family. You have given me every chance in life and always been there to help and support me in everything that I have done.

Kwantle le lerato, le thego ya lona, I would not be here today, the confident and accomplished person you see now. Ke ya le lerata lotlhe, ka Lerato la bakurante. Ke a leboga ho menagane.

I would also like to thank my new family. Di-Tau, le nkamohetse lapeng la lona, ka matsoho a mofuthu, a tletseng lerato. Le butse dipelo tsa lona , la nkamohela fela jaaka e mong wa lona. I really feel like I belong. I don’t feel like makoti, ke ikutlwa fela jaaka setho sa lelapa la ha Tau. That’s how welcomed I really feel.

Chee ka nnete, ke thabile hona, go feta tekano. Ka jeno lena, Ke Taukgadi. You have welcomed me with open arms into your family and I have felt very at ease around you.

Ke rata Mora wa lona, go kgaisa sengwe le sengwe you can think of in this world and you should know that I meant every vow I said today.

Ke ikantse pele ho Ntate Modimo , Batsadi ba me, le Lona, and everyone,that I will spend every minute of every day trying to make him as happy as he makes me.

Nna le Karabello, re tla arohanya ke lefu. Ke a tseba hore lenyalo le tla le boikarabelo, hard work, sacrifices, compromises, and some challenges, empa, Ke a le tshepisa hore, re tla jara everything together ra aga lelapa.

Ke a leboga Mme’ MaNthabeleng le Ntate Motheo. Ke lebogela go mpelegela le go nkhudisetse Tau e e matla, e lerato, e ntlhompang.

Ke a le rata, fela jaaka a le rata. Karabello and I are trully blessed to have such wonderfull parents like you.

My husband, as I can now call him, means everything to me.O sengwe le sengwe se ke se tlhokang in a man, ke ho rata ka mmele, pelo le moya, bo nna jotlhe. Lerato la o ka swa, nka ho ja.
Ke kopa o seke wa mphetogela, remain as you are Lav'of my life.

A tear escaped my eye as I remembered the sms between him and LSG, but I decided to toughen up and speak from my heart. Deep inside, I knew I loved him so very much. Yes my husband let me down big time with those flirtation messages with LSG, but he was marrying me and I had no doubt about his Love for me…I was just too disappointed and felt really let down.

I paused a bit as I gathered myself and letting my husband wiping the tears off my eyes..

Then I continued.

From the moment I saw Kevin, I knew he was the one and that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. I am so excited that today is the first day of the rest of our lives and I can’t wait to see where the path takes us. But wherever that path may be I know that nothing will be able to put a wedge between us.

My husband and I believe in marriage, re itumetse go feta tekanyo. Apart from being madly in love with each other,selo sele sengwe se se re direlang mo relationship ya rona ke gore we share same values.

Re ikemiseditse go tlisa kemo-nokeng, lerato,boitumelo le tlhompho maphelong a rona as we fulfill our purpose on this earth.We will walk through this journey, botlhokong le lethabong, go isana lefung.

So I would like to make a toast.

To The man I love with all my heart, now and forever.
My Handsome Husband Kevin Karabello Tau.

Kevin being Kev, was almost in tears. I had to stop. Whispered in his ears. You are my world.

I had no doubt Kevin loved me, he had never given me a reason not to trust him, well until few minutes ago, when I went through his phone.

A part of me was still battling with the revelation, another part was feeling guilty gore ke ne ke bulelang foun ya gagwe.

The question remained: Do I ignore the messages and just pretend I never saw them? Or do I confront my husband, and deal with this once and for all?

What must I do? I'm about to go on honeymoon. Do I really want to ruine my time with my husband because of some funny flirtation smses?

OK Kevin might have lied to me about his colleague but maybe it's nothing serious. Maybe I looked to much into something innocent, well, maybe not so innocent but casual.

Should I ruin my marriage over that? Was it worth it? Oh God, what must I do? Ka gopola a verse from the bible....

Morena ke Modisa wa me...

If I am getting into this marriage with doubts and fear, only God will reveal everything to me. I have to look at the bigger picture. The bigger picture being that, I am Kevbin's Wife...

Right there,I decided that I must let go and let God. I chose to forget about what I saw and focus on being Kevin’s wife.

I refused to let those sms occupy my mind. Besides, I am the one standing before God, my families and friends,as Mrs Kevin Tau, screw LSG. The boy is mine.

I dug a deep whole with my eyes and threw the LSG saga in it and closed it and planned to dance on top of it…It was gone. I won’t even ask him about it.I am going to turn a blind eye, a deaf ear...

Unless it comes out from him or she pops into our lives again.Gona jaanong, I am focusing on this day and the vows Karabello and I made to each other.

We made a Vows that we will love each other for better or worse, in good times and bad times and forsaking all others..

Right now, I have to concentrate on this moment of joy. Being a Perfect Wife to my Dark chocolate hunk.

DJ played yet another of our favorite songs, by N-SYNC, This I promise you.

I was so lost in the lyrics, as Kevin was singing along, I could hear him clearly….

I've loved you forever, In lifetimes before
And I promise you never...Will you hurt anymore
I give you my word, I give you my heart (give you my heart)
This is a battle we've won And with this vow,
Forever has now begun...

Just close your eyes (close your eyes) Each loving day (each loving day)
I know this feeling won't go away (no..)Till the day my life is through,
This I promise you.’

This I promise you, He said as he placed a wet peck on my forehead.I kissed him back, and said....I will hold you to that.....and this I promise you too..

I knew I was Loved...

Hallo, Meet Mr and Mrs Tau.....

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