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Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts

Thursday, June 21


Best Tips to Attract Rich Men and Keep Them Interested for ever.

How i attracted my rich men and kept him interested.

To attract rich men and hold their attention a woman should be all she can be as far as beauty goes. Looking well kept and fresh will go a long way if you are not a natural beauty, as most rich men like a woman who is neat and trim. Never let him see you in over sized sweatshirts and baggy pants.

Take care to be your ultimate well-groomed and polished self when on the hunt for a wealthy man. Your look should be pretty, feminine and conservative. Avoid going for the bimbo look, with mini skirts, and spiked heels because most men will find it impossible to respect you and consider taking you seriously. Remember men tend to categorize women; and the categories are often: respectable, trustworthy and sweet, or, loose, shallow, and temporary. These very basic views can linger in a mans mind for a year or even a lifetime, so it is important to make some solid first impressions.

If you have tattoos, you should hide them as much as possible, as most rich men generally like a clean and sophisticated lady, not a biker chic.

If you are truly serious about being with a rich man you should place yourself around rich men every day. The more rich men you spend time around the more dates you will get the the more options you will have. Gear your life in a way that keeps you in the circles of the wealthiest men, and keep building upon your group. Don't put all your eggs in one basket, there are a lot of rich men out there and make sure you get the chance to be seen around as many as possible.

Once you have landed a few first dates you must follow the guidelines of how to win a rich man by avoiding these common mistakes. This is the time to intrigue and lure a man into your life.

After dating one or two men seriously for about one year it is time to get married. You don't exactly have to be walking down the isle after knowing a man for only one year but you should feel very secure with the idea that he wants a future with you. If you don't feel secure about he being serious with you, its time to place him on the back burner and focus on another man.

The reason for this is that it only takes about one year for a man to make a decision about you, and too many women let themselves become used for years on end while the guy strings her along. Men don't let themselves get jerked around in the same manner and will usually strike at their goals, succeed or fail, and then move on, but women will stew and be tormented until their self esteem is shattered. Don't let this happen to you! The cure for one man is another.

Source: pairedlife
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Friday, June 1


8 Things You Should NEVER Tell Your Man

8 Things You Should NEVER Tell Your Man

I’ve made a list of things you should never, under any circumstance, tell your man if you want the relationship to survive. We’re not saying keep things from each other but some things are better left unsaid.

1. Never admit that you hate his mother…even if he badmouths her first (the Silence Is Golden rule)

It can be tempting to add your two cents as your husband is telling you yet another story about his controlling, manipulative, buttinsky mother. Tempting to say, “You think that’s bad? The other day she told me all of our son’s good qualities come from her! She’s just a delusional, dried-up old cow who wishes she could be married to you and who resents the hell out of me just because you love me!” Take a deep breath and hold your tongue. Remember, he can say whatever he wants, because she’s his mommy. If you agree too adamantly, bad things will happen to your relationship, not the least of which is that your husband will never let you forget your slip up and will preface everything he says about her with that.
2. Never tell him that his best friend made a pass at you…(the No Harm, No Foul rule)

Unless he is a repeated offender never do this. This will result in a massive fight between the two men and also your husband might start being suspicious of you. Some men might go as far as suspecting that you encouraged their friends to make a pass at you. It might end up sounding like you had an affair.

3. Never confess to past infidelities…(the Don’t Tell, Don’t Tell rule)

Now, girls, I’d hope this goes without saying, but I’ll mention it anyway. I don’t care if you were 20 and dru_nk at the time; never admit that you cheated while in a committed relationship. On the subject of fidelity, you are above reproach. And not being a cheater yourself, you have zero tolerance for cheaters. But in all seriousness, you have to ask yourself how the relationship could possibly benefit from your true confessions, and I think you’ll see the answer is not at all. Doubt can do serious damage.

4. Don’t tell him that one of your girlfriends is cheating on her husband…(the Keep Your Big Fat Mouth Shut rule)

Just keeping your own past slipups under wraps is not enough. In general, you must act as though infidelity is equal to murder. You know it exists, you’ve read about it in the papers, but you certainly don’t know anyone who has actually committed it. (This won’t always be easy)

5. Don’t say he’s not as hard as he used to be…(the It’s Your Memory That’s Getting Soft rule)

So your husband doesn’t have the tumescence of a 20-year-old frat boy. I bet you don’t have the stamina of Venus Williams. I say this not to make you feel bad about your own aging body but to help you appreciate (or at least accept) his.

6. Never tell him that it does bother you that you make more money than he does…(the Being Married to You Is a Full-Time Job rule)

Really ladies, some things are better kept quiet. Is it necessary? Marriage is collective, everyone brings something to the table whether emotionally, physically or financially.

Source: Online
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Tuesday, May 22


My dad touches me, this is how he does it

My dad touches me, this is how he does it

Dear MizzB

When I was 16 I bunked school and went to a house party.

My parents found out and they were angry with me. My father made me do a v!rg!n!ty test, which I passed.

Since then he checks me every month when my mother is away. He makes me lie down without p@nti3s and inserts his finger in my v@g!na.

Dear Child

Your dad has absolutely no right to do this ! If he was doing the right thing he wouldn’t do it in his wife’s absence. His behaviour is completely inappropriate.

Tell your mother today because this is an abuse of your rights as a person.

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Monday, May 14


5 Signs Your Man Is Hiding Things From You In His Phone

5 Signs Your Man Is Hiding Things From You In His Phone

They say the best way to catch a cheating man is through his phone and I actually think so too, but these days men have become so cunny with their phones that you can’t even catch them anymore—but you actually can and I’d show you how.

Text messages, chat messages and all sorts of things are now outdated as men have even become smart enough to delete an inbox or sent item immediately after, so if you’re still counting on that you could probably never know if he’s cheating. Action they say speak louder than words and it’s only through his actions that you would know.

4 signs he’s cheating with his phone


Putting security is a normal thing for everyone, but when it gets beyond normal is when your man won’t tell you his password to his phone. If he can’t give you the access to that phone then there is no doubt he has another chic that he’s hiding from you. I mean, you are his lady he’s supposed to let you in on everything, but when his security becomes more important than you then you should know there is another lady (or ladies) in the picture.

One trick men use is tell you their password today and change it the next day. He knows that you would become suspicious if he doesn’t give you his password to his phone, so he cleverly tells you the pass and changes it later on, so you won’t have to access his phone without asking him.


A call or message from his side chic could come in when you are with his phone, so this makes him uncomfortable when you are with his phone for long periods. Don’t think because he’s given you his phone then it means he’s clean; if he acts edgy and strange then you should know that your man is probably cheating.


Most ladies don’t know this but it happens a lot. A lady once told me of her past relationship; she called off the relationship when she noticed that her man never receives calls when with her, not that calls won’t come in but he smartly puts off his network so as to make his line unreachable—if you ask me, I’d say smart move, but it just shows he has numerous women in his life.

So ladies, if your man is exhibiting any of these signs, you should toe the part of caution as there is every tendency that your man is cheating on you.
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Saturday, March 24


Tips to keep a women forever

How to keep a Women lesson

To All Men. Let me tell you something. I noticed gore a woman will do any and everything to make her relationship work. That’s why she almost never regrets it when it’s time to walk away.


I mean. She can be there for you from the start, through all the lies, cheating, and constantly getting left, but she won’t leave; and wena you taking advantage of that, of everything she gave you which is all she have.

You keep messing up with her and expect her to forgive you because wa go rata, But trust me ngwanesu. Even the strongest feelings expire when ignored and taken for granted – Be careful.

My advice is: When you have a woman who is willing to go through hell just to keep your relationship going… You really shouldn’t take her love for granted my guy. Very wrong. Don’t take a good woman for granted!

I, Moses Gazman mukhansi say to you Today, If she loves you. Never take her love for desperation and please don’t stop doing what you did to get her one you have her. If you know what I mean.

I mean. Men don’t have to be perfect to make women happy. All a man really needs to do, is to LOVE her like he PROMISED when they first dated. Simple. Nothing more nothing less!

Seriously – Some of you will never realize what great woman you have until she’s gone for good and you’re STUCK with a dumb or useless slay queen that doesn’t even do half the things the woman you took for grated did for you – Be careful. Change before it’s too late. If you know what I mean.#Lets_Fix_This_This #NotEasyButPossible
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Wednesday, October 4


10 Signs A Girl Has a Crush On You – Relationship Tips

10 Signs A Girl Has a Crush On You – Relationship Tips

1. She’s constantly talking about you.
Here’s something to think about: if someone’s talking about you, you’re occupying their mind in one way or another. If someone really, truly wasn’t interested in you, would they really be thinking about you all the time? If a person was repulsed by you, they wouldn’t spend any time talking about you.

2. She teases and taunts you.
Rare though it might be, girls might also “neg” guys the same way guys do girls. If a girl has felt slighted by you, she may turn to taunting your and making fun of you as a way to lick her own wounds. Guys, this shouldn’t take you by surprise — you’re famous for this move!

3. Even though she insists she hates you, she keeps bumping into you and hanging out with your friends.
The more unlikely it is that she’d meet you in these “random” place, the more likely it is that she wants you to notice that she’s there.

4. She blushes around you or blushes when someone says she has a crush on you.
Blushing is one of those things that you can’t hide, no matter what you say. It’s a sign she’s flustered, and it’s also a sign that she’s been caught red-handed.

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5. You keep catching her stealing glances at you.
If she didn’t like you, she wouldn’t constantly be ogling you. Unless you have lobsters crawling out of your ears, you’re probably being scoped out by this girl.

6. You’ve overheard her friends joke about how she likes you.
More often than not, a girl’s friends will see right through the bu11sh*t. If they’re the type who are blunt about things, then they’ll most likely joke about the fact that she has a crush on you.

7. Her friends have tried to goad you into talking to her.
This is a classic move that’s done by friends when a girl’s too shy to approach you on her own. Usually, when this happens, the girl’s already asked them to play Cupid because she’s too shy to approach you on her own.

8. Your friends keep mentioning that it seems like she might like you, often citing reasons listed here.
Maybe it’s time to listen to your friends? They’ll often have a better grip on reality when it comes to who does and doesn’t like you.

9. She seems like she’s trying to rub her s*xu@l!ty in your face.
This is an especially big sign if you recently rejected her and it seems like she’s trying to make you jealous. Subtle clues like looking at you while she’s k!ssing another guy, or even just overplaying her taken status may be an indicator that she’s still a bit salty over it

10. You can’t help but notice that she stammers a lot around you.
Usually, if a girl who’s normally quick-witted is stammering around you, she likes you. I speak as someone who has a tendency of both stammering and verbal diarrhea when she’s around a guy she likes. This is usually a clear indication that she’s into you.
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